Aug 30th 2010 How To Meet And Talk To Eastern European Women
Have you turned on the TV and watched a fashion show lately? It does not matter if it is Paris or Milan, the women are always beautiful. Did you know that more and more models that you see on this catwalk are Russian? Russian women are beautiful so it is easy to understand why they fill the popular fashion magazines modeling the latest designs. And their interest in modelling is simple to understand as well – their capacity to earn as a fashion model far outweighs any career back home.
So the challenge is, just how do you date Russian girls?
You can meet your perfect match on this website, but meeting a Russian woman can be as simple as heading out to a dance club in New York. With so many Eastern European girls travelling abroad to further their career, that attractive brunette you happen to be watching on the dance floor might have a Russian accent. If you tend to be the type of person who is easily lost for words when talking to gorgeous women, the following are a few suggestions to make you feel more comfortable..
Try Saying Hello
She might look like a goddess, but she is only human. It is your expectations of her that prevent you from putting two words together. Start treating her like any other individual.
Imagine you just got into work on Monday morning and you see a good friend. What do you say? Things like … hi, how was your weekend or how have you been? Then why not treat her the same way. Instead of freezing up you cuold experiment with … hi, how are you today, or good morning.
You still risk rejection, but that is part of dating.. But a casual introduction will come across as more genuine and relax you if you are nervous.. Besides, what do you want her (if she wasn’t interested) to say to her hot friends about you when they arrive; ‘he’s cute but not really my type’ or ’should have heard the cheesy pickup line some wierdo tried out on me earlier’? One means you have been preselected for her friends (very powerful) and the other means you’re the wierdo in the corner to avoid.
Start With The Basics
The most important skill you can learn when talking to women is to improvise in a conversation. The process is easy. Pick something from your surrounding environment and build a conversation around it.
Like any skill, the first time you try this out you will probably fail or feel awkward doing it. You will spend a lot more time thinking of what to say than actually saying it. The key is to practice at it initially. Rather than adding it straight into your meet women arsenal, practice it in day to day life first.
Start with the basics, and that is being comfortable with having a casual chat with people you just met. Next time you are in a supermarket, say hello to the salesperson behind the counter (don’t feel creepy if it is a guy – you are just working on the basics of communication here). When you are ready, move up to the next step and add ‘how are you’ to build your comfort level in talking to strangers.
Now why am I telling you to practice your communication skills on everyday people? It is because these women will not reject you. They are there as part of your normal every day life. And when there is no fear of rejection, you can just concentrate on practising your communication skills. Make sense?
Improvise
Once you are comfortable with talking to people you just met, it is time to move to the next lesson.. Pick something from your immediate environment and create a conversation around it.
At first, it will be an awkward question that you will ask; something like “have you had the salad, I was thinking of trying it out”. It will feel awkward because you are spending more time thinking about what to say regarding the salad and not being present in the conversation, so things might not come out right.
But this social stumbling will pass as you become relaxed with it. Practice at every chance you get so it becomes second nature. And who knows where even a practice conversation might lead. After all, women do like to talk if they are attracted to you.
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