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Life Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in addressing this following question. Women seem to suffer the most from trust, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coach Advice for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be alone”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to the survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I am going to assume you have been thinking about creating love for yourself. There are many who decide to stay away from intimate relationships. And that need not be the situation for a person who has given up after they have continuously been unsuccessful. Not a thing is wrong with preferring to be without an intimate relationship. Life can be fulfilling and fantastic with any decision you end up with.
As long as you know you are choosing that rather than giving up out of frustration that you have not met the relationship of a lifetime. You can have it all in a relationship and in your life.
If you could see yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you would see a wonderful, magnificent, brilliant, connected entity. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what we need to watch out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our personal energy. OK, I will give you as simple new children we do need protection. Fine. But shortly after they learn to function by themselves, self-empowerment should be part of the training for the little ones.
Well-intentioned adults want to do the correct thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The feeling of not-enoughness gets engraved at an early age.
Brain research now explains to us that until we’re 7, we are so open and available to receive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It’s not a question we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have listened to the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The recurring message says you’re unworthy, you cannot trust you, you don’t know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They simply intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been trained away from our inherent beauty and brilliance.
I recommend that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a chance. First off, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your parents. They were programmed the same way too. You can stop the perpetration of low sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything you desires.
Do your very best to give yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE lovable. And that IS the truth!
People who are single who come to me to grasp the Law of Attraction to attract love often come to me for advice. They wonder, “Can you attract the wrong lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. Let me explain. You attract the “Wrong” lover with a basis on what it is you project you desire. That is, your words are saying “I want someone who is fun, loving, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” and your dominant subconscious intention is something more like … “I can never meet the right woman. Why is it my friends have such a simple time of it? What am I doing incorrectly? Where are all of the single amazing women? And so on. So you’re going to end up attracting more about what you are unconsciously desiring and what you are expecting to happen. So is she incorrect? Perhaps, is your thought pattern incorrect? The Law of Attraction says what you focus on you get more of. So if you’re not in a relationship and are searching for a relationship, you need to pay attention to what it is like to be in a love relationship, not the other way around.
A great practice to change your inherent desires on this is by using a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks teaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You can use this tool when you see you experience a lot of negative vibrations and need to continue changing the direction of your intention and find a better feeling place. When you desire to strengthen your threshold of creation since you have got some negative energy. Here is how it works: you should do this in written form to get the hang of it. I really suggest that you never cease to handwrite a Book of Positive Aspects. You will wish to set aside at least 15 minutes for this practice.
At the top of the page put down the area of what you desire an improved vibrational set point on. Maybe a certain thing has caught your attention that you don’t like, you’d rather not have it occurring, or maybe you’ve got a large bit of judgment about this subject and feel bad. Write down what that is. Now notice that you know what you do not want and the contrast has aided you to hone the intention of what you actually desire. Your task is to put down in detail you want. And keep turning your attention to the better feeling desire. Jot lists of what you like about what IS functioning, what’s good, what you have that you DO like, even about the present situation. Look for aspects of your life to be appreciative of in the area and in any outside or related life situation. This will turn you to the positive attraction setting. You will create what you want instead of its opposite. Try it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?
Donna from N.C. Asked those that heartfelt question. As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here’s the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, I’m so glad that you know that you definitely need to release the hurts for your past before you can find and keep lasting love.
The Law of Attraction states “you attract more of what you focus on.” Before we can welcome in our new love relationship, clearing out the past and healing old wounds is necessary. They take up emotional space. It’s impossible to occupy a space when that space is already taken. You’d never try to park your car in a spot that already had a car there.. Then why try to have a successful relationship when holding onto hurts or grudges from the past?
You can get online Law of Attraction relationship coaching to teach you how to create emotional space as a way of clearing that out. You want to look at what energy you’re holding about the hurt. There’s a story you’re telling yourself that is playing out as a truth for you. Once you clear out that stuck energy pattern, you’ll be able to say ‘yes’ to love..
You may have a smile on your face and be dressed to the nines with a smile on your face, but you’ve got this energy field you’re dragging around that’s draining your energy and killing the possibility of living a happy fulfilling life in relationship~As long as you’re dragging around the past with all the drama and trauma, it doesn’t matter where you go or how good you look, you won’t be completely fulfilled.
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Tina from New Zealand wanted to know “How do I get free from my limiting beliefs when I’m trying to find my soul mate relationship”?
Great question because negative thinking is a big player in all of our manifesting successes especially in finding your perfect soulmate relationship.
There’s this little old thing called a limiting belief. It plays big time in our belief in the likelihood of whether we’ll attract or repel the love relationship we want. Negative thoughts are old patterns that have been ingrained in our consciousness. Negative thinking operates more on the subconscious level. We’ve all got them. It’s just, for most of us, we don’t realize they’re a player in your soulmate relationship attraction abilities. So it’s a good thing that you acknowledge that you’ve got some negative thought patterns about finding a loving, soulmate connection running in the background or the foreground, whichever the case may be.
And certainly, it’s not really your fault.
Child development experts tell us that by the time we’re 6 years old, we’ve heard the word NO over 60,000 times? We were constantly being told what we can’t do and why we CAN’T DO it. It’s no wonder you’ve got some negative patterns running. Couple that with the mass consciousness thinking and unless you surround yourself with progressive thinkers, it’s hard to actually utilize these powerful principles and attract your soulmate relationship. For added support, get involved with like minded thinkers as you’re recreating your negative thought patterns into fully empowered self-esteem.
You’ll learn much more about how to gain Self-Confidence, Worthiness and Self-Esteem AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
http://www.evanmarckatz.com. Dating coach Evan Marc Katz works with smart, strong, successful women who want to understand and connect with men. Here, he shows how the best dating advice for women is to not do a thing!