Sep 30th 2009 Where can I find beautiful women who are willing to date average-looking, average-waged guys?
There is a new study that finds women are dating more for looks these days and less for money, which means, unfortunately, that the average-looking man will find it even harder to date attractive women. He can’t even hope to date them by becoming a multi-millionaire! I, for one, am deeply concerned.
Although there are, of course, exceptions, it is generally believed that people of similar levels of attractiveness tend to be attracted to one another.
At the same time, there are very beautiful women who may be willing to date someone who is average-looking as long as he was someone she could admire in terms of his personality and/or integrity and/or morality, etc.
One problem for you, though, could be that you may be willing to overlook women with attractiveness of a level similar to yours (average-looking women who know how to make the most of their looks can be pretty attractive). The fact that you appear to be wanting to do this doesn’t say much for your character – so you may not quite have the exceptional personality and character that would interest a knock-out-beautiful woman.
Something you may want to consider (or may not realize) is that often times women who are considered "knock-out beautiful" are seen that way not necessarily because they were born with unusually beautiful faces but because they are physically fit and have a good hair-stylist and good make-up on an otherwise "average-attractive" face. I’m not taking anything away from the fact that they manage to be seen as beautiful, but the other side of that is that any number of average-looking women could look far more beautiful with the right make-up, hair and maybe weight adjustment or figure-enhancing under things.
Maybe you need to consider getting a make-over and doing whatever it takes to get your body into great shape if it isn’t.
Also, it takes a certain amount of time and money for a woman to have the personal trainer, the cook, the nanny, the expensive make-up, and the hair stylist often required to be extremely and amazingly beautiful. You may want to consider the money factor when factoring in your average wages into the imagined scenario.
You probably have reason to be "deeply concerned" – not because of your average looks or average wages, but because of the value you have placed on "beautiful" and also for your apparent belief that you can expect of someone else what you, yourself, are not.
Finally: I know you’re question shouldn’t be taken all that seriously; but as long as I’ve gone this far I’d like to add one thing; and that is that extremely beautiful women are humans. Whether or not their beauty is completely natural (and it usually isn’t) or is a matter of know-how any beautiful woman worth dating wants you to date her because of who she is and not what she looks like. Extremely beautiful people have a whole bunch of superficial crap they have to deal with all the time; so the irony is that the one thing you might be able to offer a beautiful woman (wanting to date her because you have met her and like her for who she is) is the one thing you may not have.
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