Now in this article we’ll be addressing the nasty rejection that most men actually fear. You know the classics like getting slapped on the face, maced in the eyes, verbal insults, UFC fight breaking out, etc.
Why focus on this kind of rejection? Because this is the kind of rejection that you should avoid. You have no reason to be afraid of being politely turned down. Polite rejection is an important part of the dating game that cannot be avoided. Being afraid of polite rejection is simply childish.
But lets get back on the topic of nasty rejection…
The reasons that would result in a woman rejecting you in a bad way are pretty easy to avoid once you know what to look out for. And so the main reasons for nasty rejection are:
1. Being Arrogant Or Macho
Women love confidence in a man but not arrogance. Therefore you need to realize that try to act overly macho/masculine as you approach a woman and chances are high that she will turn you down badly. You can expect her to laugh at you or verbally trim you down to size.
2. Invading Her Personal Space
Believe it or not, women don’t like it when you randomly walk up to them, put your arm on their shoulder and say stuff like “Hey Baby, you look hot today!” Nor do they like it when you follow them around everywhere, try to secretly take pictures of her on your camera phone or forcefully sit to close. Generally invading her personal space is a bad idea.
3. Failing To Take The Hint
When you get a polite rejection, take the hint and stop pushing. Stubbornness after rejection will not end well for you. If you cant take the hint from a polite rejection then she will feel like she needs to step it up a notch and get nasty for you to understand that “No means no”.
So when you get a soft rejection do not try and stop her as she turns to walk away, do not grab her arm, do not demand or beg for “Just One Date”. All these usually end with a nasty rejection as she feels that you need to get the hint quicker. These actions also show a lack of emotional maturity in you.
This is definitely one scenario where persistence won’t pay.
4. You Creep Her Out
If you spend all night drooling over a woman, staring at her from a distance with a piercing creepy look on your face then approaching her and using some weird pick up line or a sad plea for a date and you will succeed in completely creeping her out. This will lead to a nasty rejection. It is also a very bad idea to say stuff like “You smell like my aunt.”
So avoid committing this social disasters and you will never have to worry about nasty rejections.
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Posted by Mitchell Graves / dating women
