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Jul 10th 2009 04:08 am Why do lesbians date women that look like men?

27 Responses to “Why do lesbians date women that look like men?”

1. Never say forever on 10 Jul 2009 at 9:18 am #

   

   I KNOW RIGHT?! I’ve wondered that too. Lesbians like women but they date girls who look like guys. It’s weird. Yes, I know not all of them date girls who look like guys but still.
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2. Kristen on 10 Jul 2009 at 9:41 am #

   

   i always wondered that…
   like lindsay lohans girlfriend looks like a dude.
   hmm.
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3. Teliecat on 10 Jul 2009 at 10:05 am #

   

   i think your an ass
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4. Bass guitar man on 10 Jul 2009 at 10:29 am #

   

   YES ON 8!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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5. anonymous on 10 Jul 2009 at 10:57 am #

   

   i dont understand gays at all.
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6. Cohen on 10 Jul 2009 at 11:21 am #

   

   Lesbians like women.
   As long as they’re happy in the relationship then who cares?
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7. B-RYE on 10 Jul 2009 at 11:31 am #

   

   Yeah I thought lesbians are supposed to be hot
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8. adnysirk on 10 Jul 2009 at 11:41 am #

   

   hehe so true, no idea
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9. justwondering on 10 Jul 2009 at 11:51 am #

   

   I’ve never understood this.

   Maybe they were both gay men trapped in womens bodies?
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10. Hannah on 10 Jul 2009 at 12:11 pm #

    

    It’s just a sexual preference, much like the way that some straight women prefer biker guys, or the way that some straight men prefer athletic women.

    Also, as a woman who tends to be more "boyish" than "girlish," I find it quite offensive that you think that I’m not "normal-looking," and that I look like an "it." You should think about the way your words could affect people the next time you post a question on here.
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11. dogpatch USA on 10 Jul 2009 at 1:00 pm #

    

    because fems are attracted to butches.
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12. 8WeBs on 10 Jul 2009 at 1:09 pm #

    

    i know weird hey
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    can’t make out your avatar

13. tsun dere kko on 10 Jul 2009 at 1:31 pm #

    

    You’re stereotyping lesbians, my friend.

    SOME lesbians date women that look like men.

    SOME of us do not.

    I personally am not attracted to butch girls. I am not a butch girl. Both my fiancée and I are very, very feminine.

    However, I don’t have a problem with girls who are attracted to butch girls. People are attracted to all sorts of different things.

    Some people like blondes, other brunettes. Some people like short people, some people like tall people. Etc, etc, etc. People have preferences.

    Please don’t stereotype. :]. Not all lesbians are the same, my friend.

    EDIT: Basically, see Gwennie’s answer.
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14. secrets on 10 Jul 2009 at 1:56 pm #

    

    I don’t, I like women and i like them to look like women. I consider myself to look like a woman too. Seriously women are soooooooooooooo sexy. I like them looking like women

    EDIT/ I’m not saying i don’t like manly women, i like them too the are very sexy to. I like woman of all kinds.
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15. Gwennie B on 10 Jul 2009 at 2:38 pm #

    

    I love everything about butch women, and I always have. More feminine girls just don’t do anything for me sexually- I can objectively admire their beauty and sexiness, but in the end, it’s when I see a woman who is androgynous, boyish, or plain out manly, my heart starts to pitter-patter. So let me sing an ode to butches here, because far too often all I see is "Eww, yuck, I like my women to look like women!", and that’s so sad.

    I love butch hair. I like the way the women who wear it- whether it’s short or long- use their hair in a completely different way than do feminine women- they don’t flip it or toss it or curl it around their fingers, but sometimes they run their hands through it that special way. I love the way short hair looks so distinguished on a strong face that would otherwise be hidden by length, and I love the way a shaved butch head both reveals a butch’s masculinity in attitude, and femininity in the face and head that emerge.

    I love butch faces. I love the androgynous and tomboyish faces that are beautiful, elvish, almost- the girls who could be extraordinarily beautiful in femme drag. But more than that I love the butch faces that can’t do that- that look ridiculous when painted up and framed by a wig. I love strong, square jaws that are firmly held rather than slack. I love high foreheads and thick brows that other people would probably want to pluck and shape. I love butch eyes, that are always so extraordinary. Not hidden by tons of makeup or weighted down with the way femme women often look away, it’s like looking into their souls. I love the way a butch speaks with her eyes- those direct stares that say "I love you." or make you break out in a hot flush from across the room. I love butch mouths, which are the ultimate combination: soft and sensuous girl lips that don’t act like girl lips- no pouting or worried thinning or other ‘femme’ signs.

    I love butch bodies, every way they come. I like the way that the butch female form is somehow hidden in its clothing- from the T-shirt and jeans to the sharpest cut suit, you can always tell it’s there, in the hips, the luscious curve of breast, but it’s not on display the way femme clothing screams "boobs here! butt here!". I love muscles on a woman’s body, more than the average sporty femme should have, bulging, tensing. I love butches who don’t shave their legs or their armpits, who own the hair on their body, and how though it’s long, most people don’t realize it’s downy soft, too, a beautiful covering. I love butch boobs, because they are such a prize, alternatively hated and ignored by their owners. I love little butch t*ts and big butch t*ts- I love the shape they make on a boxy body and I adore the juxtaposition of hard muscle, soft breast. I love to see a butch unwind her binding and the breasts to spill out like presents, and then get wrapped up again for the world, a secret only I’ve had access to. I love butch legs and torsos- they are so often trunk-like, solid. Even when they’re scrawny, they have a centeredness, a strength. Muscled butch legs, smooth or hairy, get me every time. I love the way so many butches adorn their bodies, bodies that aren’t supposed to be, but get decorated anyways- butch piercings and tattoos- a ring around a bicep makes me melt. I love the way butches smell- not cloyingly, sickeningly sweet like femmes’ perfume or other body scents, but clean, fresh, sometimes musky and sour with cologne, but always different, always, somehow, natural.

    I love butch fashion- I am quite simply and utterly delighted by the way women wear what’s regarded as men’s clothing. For anyone who’s ever thought that butches are lazy dressers, I want to point out the woman who looks so utterly dashing in her suit and tie, or just a dress shirt and slacks, the boi who is able to rock a Justin Timberlake look, right down to the fedora, who makes a wifebeater look as tasty as it can be, who make men in theirs look sallowly concave at the chest. I love the studded belts that punk butches wear, the boys jeans that fit off-kilter around their hips just enough. I cannot begin to explain the heat it generates to see a butch in boxers, or better yet, boxer-briefs or boy’s underwear, those legs branching up to the three-pronged cut, the flap lying flat and empty, or maybe bulging with a packer. I love the fact that nearly every butch owns a pair of boots, solid, thundering boots that look so army powerful and commanding when they wear them. I love a woman in men’s clothing.

    I love the way butches act. I love the particular way a butch woman acts "like a man", but with a woman’s way- gentlemanly ettiquette and all. I don’t know how to describe that it’s not hardly even the butch qualities (sitting wide-legged and spread out, standing tall and firm), but rather how comfortable and natural she is being that way that makes it so good. I love the way butches are playful and funny but not coy or manipulative- I love their straight-forw
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    My answer got cut off, so here’s the rest of it:

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An5CbB7lS4_jKKJasfycJssjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20080423150826AAlBRYx

16. Meus Zominium :D on 10 Jul 2009 at 2:56 pm #

    

    The penis maybe? Jesus I don’t know I only like women!!!!!!! >_<
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17. Darin H on 10 Jul 2009 at 3:41 pm #

    

    Pretty silly of you to be lumping all lesbians together like that. You don’t know any feminine gay men? I do…I also know some gorgeous lesbians. Pretty silly of you indeed.
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18. jcj099 - lsbn on 10 Jul 2009 at 3:54 pm #

    

    omg seriously? wtf do u care? people can be attracted to whoever they want. "normal looking women"… unbelievable.
    i am a boi ish looking girl that likes other boi ish looking girls. we still have female parts… even though we look like guys.
    "it"… so judgemental.
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19. heyheyhey on 10 Jul 2009 at 4:28 pm #

    

    because they are attracted to them
    they dont have to put up with penis, balls, scrot, ect. Thats a plus
    not all lesbians like these types tho.
    I like femmes. i dont look like a man
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20. Nathan on 10 Jul 2009 at 4:45 pm #

    

    A woman is a woman no matter how she likes to dress or act, They have female organs, have curves in all the right places…
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21. Selena on 10 Jul 2009 at 5:26 pm #

    

    becuz most likely lesbians are woman who have had bad expierence with men so they find woman that look like a man hoping it will be different.
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22. Boop on 10 Jul 2009 at 6:01 pm #

    

    I guess some of them are just drawn to masculine styles. I have seen hot lesbians before, though.
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23. Siouxsie on 10 Jul 2009 at 6:08 pm #

    

    Holy shite!
    Gwennie’s response made my girl parts quiver.
    I second all that. My butch girl makes me happy.
    And she’s just that, a glorious girl.
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24. Baby_girl_xox on 10 Jul 2009 at 6:46 pm #

    

    i always have very feminine partners, not into butch girls at all
    also i very feminine myself
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    my life

25. iloveyoumorethanmacktrucks<3 on 10 Jul 2009 at 7:17 pm #

    

    You need to get out and stop being so stereotypical.
    End of freaken story.
    My god.
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26. jemimajenkins on 10 Jul 2009 at 7:34 pm #

    

    Do you think an ugly guy could impersonate the type of woman you are talking about and pull it off? That’s a question I’d like to ask if it wouldn’t be instantly reported and deleted, account suspended, etc. If some guys like to impersonate hot women to get men, would it not behoove a larger, not especially good looking straight man to do the same thing to get a woman? Especially if he had little luck the conventional way?
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    Not that I would ever consider doing such a dastardly thing. It does, however, give me an idea for my next novel, "Murder in the Unisex Bathroom."

27. James on 10 Jul 2009 at 7:48 pm #

    

    Because it make the women who looks like a women feel less guilty why else
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