Have you ever been out with a girl and felt that awkward feeling when you knew you had to take things to the next level, but you didn’t know how to kiss her in the right way or were nervous of blowing it?

Most guys will encounter this at some point in their dating lives, so don’t feel bad.  In fact, I used to have this exact problem.  I could actually get a date easily, but I failed when it came time to kiss her.

First, if you are getting girls to date you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are much farther along than a lot of men.  You simply have to up the ante and kiss the girl.

You see the root of the issue is in your mind. You may be thinking “How can I know for certain if she is attracted to me?” or “What if she rejects me?”.

None of this really matters.

There are no fool-proof ways to find out if a girl likes you or not.

Instead move fast to figure out if she is the kind of girl you want to spend time with or not.

You will just need to kiss her at an appropriate time like at the end of the date. After you get some experience with this you will just feel that it is time to kiss. The situation will become thick and you will instinctively know it is time to kiss.

When you go in to kiss her, one of two things will follow.

One, you two will start to make out and have all sorts of racy fun.

Or second, she turns you down. If this happens, you should be grateful!  You just discovered that you do not need to spend any more time with this woman and can put your time to better use on other women.

Just say something smooth like, “Well, you can’t blame me for giving it a try. ” or “Just take it as a compliment.”  Wrap up the date as quickly as you can. Don’t make the situation weird, just act like the two of you are friends.

Then your relationship is left to her. If she comes to the conclusion she made an error, it is up to her to call you. But let her make the first move. You will be spending time with women who do like you romantically.

Here is a personal story that shows you how to kiss a woman.

Last summer, I met up with a woman that I was really eager to go out with. Occasionally, you meet a girl that just pushes all your buttons in just the right ways. This was one of those women.

We got together at one of my favorite spots in town. After taking her home, she invited me up to show me her artwork. We sat in her living room and talked.

Then a silence swept over us.

The moment was just right to make my move. I didn’t have any idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I allowed it to get a little wierd for the heck of it, then I said, “I just really want to kiss you now. “  Then I leaned in and kissed her.

There was some inital hesitation, but soon she just relaxed into it. Don’t back down if you get some intial resistance. She will make it very obvious if she doesn’t want you to kiss her. But anticipate a little initial hesitation at first.

Also be a man and stay in control of the kissing. A lot of women will try to do what they are used to the first few times you make out. Be firm and she will eventually let go and follow you.

After that, I gazed into her eyes and told her “You have no idea how long I’ve wanted to do that. “  She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is my advice on how to kiss a woman. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk rejection, but that’s part of the fun.

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