Are you ready to jump into the online dating scene? The internet has revolutionized meeting girls for shy or lazy men.  A decade ago a gorgeous woman would have turn you down in 30 seconds in your local bar.  Well, modern technology has leveled the playing field.  These days you can chat to a beautiful girl online while she takes the time to get to know the real you.

So what is the best way to meet a stunning woman on the internet?  The key to success is knowing how to flirt.  The internet may have improved your chances of finding a girlfriend, but you still need to know how to interact with other [human beings.

If you spend more time in front of a computer than people, then this may be a foreign concept for you.   Flirting is a basic human interaction that shows a woman you like her.  Face to face, people flirt with body language.  Online, we flirt with what we write.

So why is flirting a great way to help you meet women online?  Well, think about what happens when you first see a hot girl in a bar.

Let’s assume you are not just drooling at her across the bar and have actually gone up introduce yourself.  You think of a great opening line … and freeze up.  Instead of saying hi, you are now dribbling down your shirt.  If this is a regular occurrence for you, then flirting online means you can hide behind a keyboard and not feel so embarrassed.  You can relax and think about what you are going to write.

Flirting will also help you create sexual tension.  Without it she is going to think you are that nice friend she chats online to about all her problems.  And she will probably think you are gay.  If  she thinks you are gay or a “friend”, then your chances of having sex just went to hell.  You are going to need sexual tension to take this relationship further.  A relationship might be built on love, but without pure lust it’s not going anywhere.

Ok, so how does a dating beginner learn how to flirt?.  The following tips are to help you get started:

• Be Confident – In a bar you are competing against better looking men.  Not here!  Grab her attention by being confident.  Women love confidence in a man – just don’t get too cocky.

• Humor – A close second behind confidence is humor.  Make her feel great and she will keep coming back for more.

• Tease Her – This one takes a bit of practice but is a hot technique.  Tease her a little after you can get her to laugh.  If you are nice to her, then she will think you are a nice “friend”.  Tease her to create sexual tension.

• Ask Questions – Keep your responses simple and ask questions .  Be interested in what she has to say.

• Complement Her – Be sincere but not phoney.

• Be Brief – Don’t turn a chat session into a autobiography.  Be brief to create mystery.

So who do you flirt with?  The internet has opened up your options to almost every continent on the planet.  Why not flirt with a bonnie lass from England?  Or how about a hot Russian girl from Moscow?  And don’t forget about those tanned Aussie women down under.  The world is your dating oyster.

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