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Sep 3rd 2010 How To Tell If A Woman Thinks Of You As Just A Friend

Dating has become a tough, cruel world for those of us that are single. The internet allows us to become more and more blunt with people, with sites like ‘hot or not’ and ‘chat roulette’ really not helping the situation.

But very occassionally, be it in a bar or through dating sites, we meet a woman who agrees to let us take them out on a date. Then, a few weeks later, you suddenly find yourself being referred to as a ‘friend’, and she’s talking to you about other guys.

So how can you go about avoiding the dreaded ‘friend zone’? It can often be difficult, particularly if you’re one of those extremely polite people who don’t like the idea of not being friends with someone, but it can be done. With that in mind, here are some quick tips for staying out of the friend zone, or at least being able to spot when you’re in it:

Don’t wait too long to make your move. This one is simple but fairly crucial if you’re on a third or fourth date with a girl and you haven’t made it clear you like her or even tried to kiss her, you really should do. It can be tough if you’re shy but if you don’t she’ll eventually assume you’re not interested and move on.

If she lets you see her covered in dirt, or sweaty, or generally looking messy, chances are you’re already right where you don’t want to be. If you’re not close enough (as people) for her to be that comfortable around you (which she shouldn’t be if you haven’t slept together), then it’s most likely that she just see’s you as a friend and isn’t worried about you finding her attractive.

Make it clear to her what you’re looking for, and don’t ever refer to her as ‘mate’, ‘buddy’ or anything similar. If she starts referring to you as her ‘friend’, her ‘bud’ or (the worst) ‘brother’, then you can basically be sure that she’s only interested in you as a friend.

If she brings up the topic of intercourse, at any point without prompting when the two of you haven’t slept together, then you need to make a move. Her even mentioning anything like this is a clear sign that she’s ready for you to sleep together and it’s likely that she’s had to bring it up because you haven’t made a move – miss this chance and it’s likely to be your last.

Hopefully that will give you a few pointers for steering clear of the ‘friend zone’ that most men dread, otherwise you’ll likely find yourself back on those dating websites, ticking the ‘men seeking women‘ category.

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Sep 3rd 2010 Signs That He Loves You

You are on a coffee date with friends or out shopping and you see this guy who you think seems to be attracted to you but you are un sure and you question; what are the sure signs that he loves you?

1. Attention grasping! One signal that he loves you is that he will seek and get your attention and make an impact on you. A man who loves you will seek and make you grin faintly, beam or even laugh. If he is within your friendship network then when he crackes a joke he will look at you quickly at you and then turn away to see if you are laughing at his joke. If he is not part of your friendship network he will place himself a little apart from his group and will seek to get your interest either by being boisterous or by his diverted attention to the going-ons in his grouping and he will keep taking rapid momentary looks at you. If you do like him back then you can let him know by rapidly looking him in the eye, grinning faintly and then discreetly looking down or away.

2. His body wispers. Another sure signal that he likes you is seen in how his body reacts in your presence. The primary sign is the way he holds himself when he is around you. He will position his body facing you with his legs separated and he will either clinch his hands to his belt or will have his hands on his hips in an unconscious conquering attitude as if he were warning off other men.

3. Notices the un-noticeable. Another sure signal that he is interested in you is that he will be aware off things about you and will praise you. He will perceive your fresh hair style, your innovative hat etc. and will make casual positive remarks to you on it. For a guy who is inhibited and believes that you are out of his class, he will perceive these details but in place of praising you openly he will do it through common acquaintances with the anticipation that they will pass on the compliments.

4. He is everywhere you look. Another positive indication that he is interested in you is that he will want to be near you and he will pop up for unexplained or flimsy reasons. He will pop up every now and then in a haphazard manner wherever you are (not in a stalking manner) although at this stage it is difficult to know whether he is boyfriend or stalker material.

5. Mr fidgety. Another signal that he is interested inyou is that he will seem ill at ease around you. In some instances he will talk incessantly about trivial topics and he can’t seem to keep quiet. In other cases he will appear ill at ease in his suit and will keep fiddling with his shirt. But this can also be as he is simply of a anxious personality so this signal needs to be seen in combination to others.

6. He tries to impress you. Another definite signal that he likes you is that he will do his best to better how he dresses as he does his best to make himself more attractive to you. And his buddies will notice the behavior change and will be able to clue you in on how much he really does like you.

If you become aware of 2 or 3 of these sure signs that he loves you then there is a very good probability that he is attracted to you but the only definite way of knowing is either to ask him or to wait until he comes out and says it. Unfortunately men can sometimes be shy and may send all these signs but then have difficulty coming out and just saying how much they do love you.

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Sep 3rd 2010 How To Attract Women: Tips For Flirting That Create Instant Natural Attraction

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Sep 3rd 2010 Social Phobia Treatment

Social Phobia Treatment

Social anxiety disorder, more commonly known as social phobia is an increasingly common disorder that many people are suffering from. Let’s take a look at what exactly social phobia is and what treatment exists for this often debilitating disease?

Social anxiety disorder generally pertains to an intense fear of particular social situations. Now to ensure that I am clear about this – it is completely natural to be nervous or fearful of things like public speaking, being in front of a microphone, job interviews and so forth. Social phobia is the intense fear of embarrassing yourself – generally to the point where you will do absolutely anything to avoid it. This could be as simple as meeting new people, going out with friends and so forth.

Social phobia can be triggered by many different things for different people, as it is very unique to each sufferer. However the most common triggers for sufferers are:

Being the point of focus (eg, a speech, etc)
Making small talk (also linked to meeting new people or strangers)
Performing (this could be on stage or even just everyday at work)
Being criticized or ruthlessly evaluated
Attending social gatherings (parties, events, etc)

You may be wondering whether you are just a shy or withdrawn person, or if you are actually classified as a social phobia sufferer. If you do any of the following, you may be classified as such:

You suffer from intense worry for extended periods of time leading up to a social situation
You have a fear that you will embarrass yourself in front of other people
You avoid social situations as best possible
You are excessively self conscious

The good news is this – there is a cure for social phobia, and it is certainly something that you can overcome. Whilst there are always clinical and medical solutions for every ailment, including social anxiety disorder – a natural, drug free option is always preferable. This sort of solution generally comes in the form of anxiety and phobia programs. The programs deal with the lifestyle changes required in order to overcome your fear and phobia. There are many such courses available on the internet, but as always, try go with something tried and test.

I personally recommend the Panic Away program. Panic Away has been around for ages and has helped thousands of sufferers, just like yourself overcome the fear of social situations, as well as many other irrational fears. For more information on Panic Away, click here.

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Sep 3rd 2010 Various types of nightclub entertainers.

Night club entertainers have certainly altered a lot in the last ten years. As lots more people are travelling to new and exciting nightclubs in places like South America and New York they expect a great deal more from the nightclubs in their home town or city. Stilt walkers, magicians and fire performers for hire are all now a big part of nightclub entertainment in the UK,Europe and the US.

Often meet and greet fire eaters are placed directly outside the nightclub or venue to welcome the clubbers inside, they will deliver some high impact tricks, interact and chat to the crowds and welcome people into the club.

When the customers first enter into the venue, they are met by beautifully attired stilt walkers, very often in a themed outfit to suite the venue or the theme of the particular club or party that night. Some stilt-walkers even have bouncy stilts, so they can run jump and even do somersaults as part of their act and performance. By the end of the night it’s not uncommon to see stilt walkers in the middle of the dance-floor dancing and entertaining the guests as they enjoy their entertainment

Crystal ball jugglers are another popular choice for nightclub entertainment, the act is a captivating cross between juggling and magic, the crystal balls seem to float effortlessly over the performers hands, body and head. The effect makes the crystal balls appear as though they are floating in the air like something from a science fiction movie. Often used early on during the evening as a great way to break the ice and get the clientele into the swing of things bit by bit.

At some time during the night, there may be a glow, fire or angle grinding display to enhance the stratum of energy in the club or venue. A performance location will be illuminated, entertainers will appear and the show will commence. Fire and angle grinding acts can have a huge impact on a nightclub full of excited party goers. The heat and danger from the flames combined with the impressive performers and the high energy music come together to construct a huge impact, sending people more and more excited as the show builds to a huge finale.

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